Mahalo for sharing your thoughts and experiences! Please understand that it is not our intention to turn people away from ghost tours (We ourselves look forward to going on a Mysteries of Honolulu and Oahu Ghost Tour in the near future). It just never hurts to take extra precautions as your family did Margie. What others say to justify their behavior doesn't matter, we are all accountable for our own actions.
Nice job! Good to see someone doing it right!